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About Miss Lola Bastinado

Sex Educator • Sex Advice Columnist • Television and Radio Host


"Sex and sexuality are a part of life. EVERYONE'S life. Depending on who I'm speaking to, depends on My delivery. Some are more receptive to the word 'cock' rather than the word 'penis'. It may sound abrasive to some, however if I'm delivering the SAME educational message, to two different groups of people, and it's warmly received AND understood.....'semantics' shouldn't matter. It just makes Me versatile." - Miss Lola Bastinado  

Radio and Television Host 

Most know Miss Lola Bastinado as a vivacious no holds bar media personality. Often referred to as the First Lady of Lifestyle and the Queen of the New York Sex Scene. Her long and impressive dossier boasts of her work with Playboy TV, Playboy Radio, Penthouse Magazine, Kink Magazine, Adult Friend Finder Newtork, Whack Magazine, Howard Stern and FOX to name a few.


As the entertainment industry's sexual media maven, Miss Bastinado's quick wit and savvy tongue infuse important sex positive information with her unique style of comedic delivery, which speaks directly to the target demographic she's working with.




A renowned sex advice columnist, specializing in a variety of Adult Alternaive Lifestyles such as swing, fetish / BDSM and the LBGT communities, Miss Lola's many years of experience and successful marriage of almost 20 years, has been a foundation her fans gravitate to when seeking relationship advice.



Being the trusted resource for sex positive education, adults from around the globe travel to her Erotic Educational courses taught internationally. Miss Lola has taught for all The Desires Resorts in Mexico as well as Hedonism in Jamaica.


On Playboy TV you can find her as the sex educator, on the television show Foursomes helping couples connect and make the most of their intimate relationships.


She also is frequently seen on a variety of television shows as well as radio.


Miss Lola's speaking engagements and workshops are held at a variety of conventions in the continental US. Often times specializing in working with specifically with women and couples.



Miss Lola Bastinado is creator and Executive Producer of the prestigious Sybarite Awards, and has been the trail blazer for the Adult Industry's Only accolade that acknowledges the Adult Alternative Lifestyles of the swing and kink genres. 



Owner of MLH Studios, Miss Bastinado also produces the only Adult Industry events on the east coast that cater specifically to couples. Infamous for her star studded galas and for creating a harmonious atmosphere, that a wide spectrum of adult communities enjoy, 'Miss Lola's House' erotic productions have become a beloved monumental staple in the New York City Underground. 



The east coast's largest peaceful collective of alternative lifestyles, literally thousands of people travel in for Miss Lola Bastinado's annual beach party. Hosting people from around the world, Miss Lola sets a day at the clothing optional beach, for adults of a variety of lifestyles to enjoy. 



Her work has led her to work with a variety of entities such as Maybach Music Group, The Winter Film Awards, Habana Ninos, Decisionaires Cigars, Blood Moon Publishing, Cuba Energy Drink, Coffin Cuties Magazine, SIKU Vodka, Pre-func, B Condoms and NUVO.




Some of the websites Miss Lola Bastinado owns:





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