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![[HERO] How to Reignite Your Sex Life and Actually Talk About What You Want (Easy Guide for Long-Term Couples)](https://cdn.marblism.com/qwrnvmpWrDH.webp)
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How to Reignite Your Sex Life and Actually Talk About What You Want (Easy Guide for Long-Term Couples)
Let's be honest for a second. You've been together for years. You know each other's coffee orders, sleep schedules, and exactly which side of the bed belongs to whom. You've built something beautiful together... but somewhere along the way, the spark that used to set your sheets on fire has dimmed to more of a pilot light. And here's the thing, that's completely normal. It doesn't mean your relationship is broken or that you've fallen out of love. It just means you're human,

Lola Bastinado
5 min read
![[HERO] 7 Mistakes You](https://cdn.marblism.com/BC2mlmh0yeV.webp)
![[HERO] 7 Mistakes You](https://cdn.marblism.com/BC2mlmh0yeV.webp)
7 Mistakes You're Making When Asking for What You Want in Bed (And How to Fix Them)
Let me tell you something that took me way too long to figure out: your partner is not a mind reader. I know, I know, shocking revelation. But somewhere between romance novels and rom-coms, we all absorbed this ridiculous idea that true love means never having to say "a little to the left." Spoiler alert: it doesn't work that way. The thing is, most of us genuinely want to please our partners. We're not selfish monsters fumbling around in the dark on purpose. The problem? We

Lola Bastinado
5 min read
![[HERO] BDSM 101: A Beginner](https://cdn.marblism.com/m30tr7MU3TK.webp)
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BDSM 101: A Beginner's Guide to Exploring Kink Without the Shame
Let's get something straight right out of the gate: if you've ever felt a little flutter of curiosity about handcuffs, blindfolds, or the idea of someone whispering commands in your ear... you're not broken. You're not weird. You're actually pretty normal. I know, I know. Society has done a bang-up job of making us feel like wanting anything beyond vanilla missionary is somehow deviant. But here's the truth that I wish someone had told me years ago: kink is just another flavo

Lola Bastinado
5 min read
![[HERO] The Science of Getting Away: Why Traveling Together is the Ultimate Aphrodisiac](https://cdn.marblism.com/mxhuthmsc7T.webp)
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The Science of Getting Away: Why Traveling Together is the Ultimate Aphrodisiac
Let me tell you something that might save your relationship, or at the very least, seriously spice it up. That vacation you've been putting off? The one you keep saying you'll take "when things calm down" or "after this busy season"? Science says you need to book it. Like, yesterday. Because here's the thing: traveling together isn't just Instagram fodder or a nice-to-have luxury. It's actually one of the most effective ways to deepen your connection, reignite your spark, and

Lola Bastinado
5 min read
![[HERO] Monogamy vs. Polyamory: Which One Is Actually Right for You?](https://cdn.marblism.com/zwt88jczM1S.webp)
![[HERO] Monogamy vs. Polyamory: Which One Is Actually Right for You?](https://cdn.marblism.com/zwt88jczM1S.webp)
Monogamy vs. Polyamory: Which One Is Actually Right for You?
Here's the thing nobody tells you when you're growing up: there's no universal rulebook for how to love. We're handed one model: find "the one," settle down, live happily ever after: and told that's just how it works. But what if that picture-perfect scenario doesn't quite fit you? Or what if it does, and you're just curious about what else is out there? Whether you've been questioning your current relationship structure, exploring new connections, or simply wondering what al

Lola Bastinado
4 min read
![[HERO] Polyamory 101: A Beginner](https://cdn.marblism.com/4zG74dkPXdj.webp)
![[HERO] Polyamory 101: A Beginner](https://cdn.marblism.com/4zG74dkPXdj.webp)
Polyamory 101: A Beginners Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy After 35
So you've hit your mid-thirties, forties, or beyond, and suddenly you're googling "polyamory" at 2 AM while your partner snores peacefully beside you. Welcome to the club, friend. You're not having a midlife crisis, you're just finally asking the questions you were too busy (or too scared) to ask in your twenties. Here's the thing: exploring ethical non-monogamy after 35 isn't some desperate grasp at lost youth. If anything, it's the opposite. You've got life experience, you

Lola Bastinado
5 min read
![[HERO] 7 Mistakes You](https://cdn.marblism.com/nrKTdZJFHCq.webp)
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7 Mistakes You're Making When Exploring BDSM (and How to Fix Them)
So you've decided to dip your toes into the world of BDSM. Maybe you watched one too many spicy Netflix shows, stumbled across some intriguing content online, or your partner casually mentioned they'd love to try something a little... different. Whatever brought you here, welcome! We're thrilled you're curious. But here's the thing, BDSM isn't like trying a new restaurant where the worst that can happen is a mediocre meal. When you're playing with power dynamics, restraints,

Lola Bastinado
6 min read


Luxurious Comfort and Unmatched Elegance: My Stay at the Wynn Encore in Las Vegas
During my recent stay at the Wynn Encore in Las Vegas, I was thoroughly impressed by the level of luxury and attention to detail that...

Lola Bastinado
2 min read


Aruba, the Island Where Romance Meets Adventure
There’s something about the island breeze in Aruba that whispers secrets of love and laughter. Maybe it’s the way the sun kisses the...

Lola Bastinado
4 min read


Indulging in Luxury at Desires Pearl Resort Riveria Maya: A Couples' All-Inclusive Paradise
If you're dreaming of a luxurious escape where every detail is designed to pamper and delight, then Desire Resorts Riveria Maya is your...

Lola Bastinado
4 min read


COUPLES CAMPING - A Fun & Rustically Romantic Adventure: Camping Along Long Island's Peconic River
A Romantic Adventure: Camping Along Long Island's Peconic River As a travel enthusiasts we are always on the lookout for hidden gems, I...

Lola Bastinado
3 min read


A Family Adventure Aboard Carnival's Venzia: Exploring Bermuda in July 2024
As a travel journalist, I am always on the lookout for experiences that combine luxury, adventure, and family fun. This July, I embarked...

Lola Bastinado
3 min read


An Unforgettable Couples' Camping Trip to St. John's Cinnamon Bay, USVI
April 2024 marked an unforgettable adventure for my husband and me. We decided to celebrate our 24th wedding anniversary by embarking on...

Lola Bastinado
6 min read
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